The Hands and Feet of Jesus

Readers of this blog know that I’ve been involved in Christian ministry for going on five decades, and in that time I’ve served in just about every other position there is in church. If it’s church related, I’ve probably done it. And lest someone think all of that makes me special, please don’t. I’m nothing more than a sinner who answered the call of God. Nothing more.

In my time I’ve learned a great many things about Christian ministry. I’ve seen the humble and the proud. I’ve worked with people who were tireless in the assignment God gave them, and I’ve also seen the entitled and lazy who thought they were privileged and somehow above others. No surprises here, because Christians are first and foremost humans, and humans are both wonderful and, shall we say, less than wonderful.

Something else that ministry teaches you is that true servants of God, the one’s that put others needs before their own, are rare and precious jewels. We live in an age of selfishness with special emphasis on me, me, and me, and when you find that rare individual living out Philippians 2:4, it forces you to stop and take notice.

A few days ago, I had the privilege to get to witness this type of selfless love in action. I saw with my own eyes the hands and feet of Jesus as someone who has been broken in heart and spirit was ministered to by someone who themselves had just received a diagnosis no one wants to hear.

And it stopped me in my tracks.

When you are a witness to seeing someone who has a desperate need themselves place those same needs on the back burner as they minister to someone else who is hurting, you realize that no sermon or Bible study lesson compares. This is love in action. This is the love that Jesus, Peter, Paul, and John spoke about. [1]

Agape love.

God’s love comes with hands and feet attached to it. Jesus’ hands and feet. Love that prefers others before themselves. Love that says “I will walk through this with you-you are not alone”. Love that says “I’m never too tired to listen to your heart cry”. Love that says “when you’re too discouraged to go on, lean on me”.

Who does this? Who exemplifies this kind of love? Who cares more about others when they themselves are in need?

I am humbled to say that I am married to her, and this unworthy man was somehow chosen to have a ring side seat to witness the hands and feet of Jesus in action on a daily basis.

I love you my Princess…

Have a blessed Sunday everyone,

Ron

[1] John 13:34 John 15:12 Romans 13:8 Galatians 5:13 1st Peter 1:22 1st John 3:11 1st John 4:11


When Weariness Sets In

Sometimes it happens. You can be tooling along, things are going good, no real issues to have to deal with, then BAM! It happens. Weariness sets in like a wet, heavy blanket that you’re unable to get off of you. It covers all of you and no matter how much you pray and ask God to lift it from you, it’s there the next morning to greet you like an unwanted intruder.

When we go to God’s word for help and encouragement we find verses like this one from Galatians 6:9: “And let us not be weary in well doing: for in due season we shall reap, if we faint not“. If that doesn’t help we go to this verse from 2nd Thessalonians 3:13: “But you, brethren, be not weary in well doing“.

If neither of those serve to lift the weariness from us we can turn to Joshua chapter one where no less than four times the Lord tells Joshua to be strong as he goes forth to conquer the Promised Land. When you’re weary from the battles however, strength is hard to come by, especially if we’re fighting the battles with our own strength.

The good news is that God has made provision for us to receive strength and encouragement from Him through prayer and the Word. That is the formula for victory. The flip side of that however is victory rarely comes as quickly as we want or need it to. Soon enough, we are brought to the point where we are asking the Lord “why are you taking so long”?

This has to be one of the greatest mysteries in the Christian walk. If God is our provider, healer, helper, and way maker, why doesn’t He respond quicker? Why must our need seemingly be put on hold? After all, the longer the wait, the more weary we become.

Decades of wrestling with these questions has taught me that it is fruitless to speculate. The reality is that just as Isaiah declared thatthe Lord’s hand is not shortened, that it cannot save; neither his ear heavy, that it cannot hear“, God does indeed hear our cries. He feels our hurts. He understands our weariness. Which leads me to this promise:

But they that wait upon the Lord shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings as eagles; they shall run, and not be weary; and they shall walk, and not faint“. Isaiah 40:31

There is a promise to those of us in the place of waiting. Renewed strength is coming, which means your present situation is not your destiny. Help will come. Weariness will be replaced with vitality and power. Our part in all of this is to simply wait upon the Lord.

When the enemy screams that you’re not getting better, wait. When the enemy mocks you for continuing to trust in the Lord, wait. When the enemy tries to sow the seeds of doubt and despair in your heart and mind, wait.

My prayer for all who are waiting for your answer is that God will speak into your heart these words of comfort: “For His anger is but for a moment, His favor is for life; Weeping may endure for a night, But joy comes in the morning“. Psalm 30:5

“Lord, many of your children are tired. Bone tired to the point of exhaustion. Mentally and physically they are ready to quit. They see no point in holding out hope any longer that you will come. But you are God, our Rock and our Mighty Fortress. We hide under the shadow of your wings. Show them Lord, show them your mighty power to deliver and set free. Break every chain of doubt they are wrestling with. Rebuke the adversary with just one blast from your nostrils. Bring peace and rest to those who cannot go one more day without hearing from you. In Jesus name I pray”.

Ron

Why So Much Conflict?

Recently, I came across an article written by a Texas divorce attorney who said that the divorce rate among Christian couples was on par with the secular divorce rate. No surprise, really, and I think most of us would say that we’ve been hearing that for some time now.

While the article did not give specific reasons for the rise in Christian couples seeking divorce, it did say that factors such as finances, substance abuse, infidelity, unresolved conflicts, and others were major contributors. Which, when you think about it, mirror the reasons non-Christians give for wanting to end their marriages.

When you minister to people on a daily basis, all of these issues will come to the forefront at some point. Likewise, as you walk alongside of people and get to know them, the sheer magnitude of the things they struggle with hits you like a ton of bricks. In those times, when I don’t know what to say to help with the situation, I often ask God, “why”?

Why does life have to be so hard? Why can’t the husband and wife put their differences aside and work things out? Why can’t forgiveness be the rule rather than the exception? Why do people spend their entire paycheck on drugs and alcohol? Why in the world would people choose to live this way?

Of course, it’s not just conflicts in the home and marriage that are so unsettling. Conflict in the church is nearly as bad. Oddly enough, the same conflicts that are tearing homes apart are doing the same thing in our churches!

Money is (allegedly) misappropriated or misused. Someone is angry over the color of the new carpet. Another person is upset because they haven’t been asked to sing in a few weeks. The list goes on and on. Trust me when I tell you that there is far more pettiness in the church than you know.

So, back to “why, God”? The easy answer is that we live in a fallen world where sin is firmly entrenched in every fabric of society. It’s inescapable. It’s also a convenient excuse in order to avoid confronting things in our lives that God’s word can help us with. Paul instructed the church in this very thing in his letter to the Galatians.

In his defense to the church at Galatia regarding Christian liberty, the apostle Paul reminded them that they were to stand fast in the liberty they had received from Christ when they were born again, and not be entangled again in any type of bondage. [1]

Paul was laying the foundation for the future of the Galatian church, and that foundation had to be built upon Christian love and liberty, not upon conflict and turmoil. He knew that for them to be faithful to God and to each other, they could not allow themselves to become entangled with petty things that serve only to tear down.

A little further on, Paul said that they were not to use their liberty to appease their fleshly desires, but use that liberty to serve one another in love. [2] Do you know how we can serve one another in love? By refusing to be drawn into conflict with those we love. By putting the needs of others before our own. By putting aside our wants in deference to the wants of others.

How many marriages could be saved if rather than always need to be right, the couple would serve one another in love? Dare I say that the rate of divorce among Christians would be miniscule if that were to happen? How many souls could be added to the kingdom if God’s children had the mindset that “it’s truly not about me, but about the lost”?

Here’s what I think. I think the primary reason for so much conflict in our homes and churches is because we are living too far from God’s word. To be sure, we may read it faithfully. We have all types of Bibles today and one is sure to suit the needs of just about everyone. But are we living it? Are we taking it home with us and living it out?

Is God’s word changing us? Are our lives being conformed to the image of His Son? [3] If they are, conflict will disappear and servant love will take its place in out lives and homes.

Have a blessed Wednesday,

Ron

[1] Galatians 5:1

[2] Galatians 5:13

[3] Romans 8:29

There is but one Truth

The word “TRUTH” gets tossed around a lot these days.

Politicians use it when they are trying to convince us that their favorite agenda item is for our own good. Mass amounts of data and statistics are compiled (and often distorted) to support their version of the truth.

Lawyers and judges speak about truth when they try to present the facts about their court cases. Witness statements, crime scene evidence, and the law itself are all used in an effort to reach a conclusive, truthful verdict.

Preachers and ministers are called to “speak the truth in love”as they declare the whole counsel of God. They are (hopefully) driven by the words of Jesus, who when praying to the Father said: “thy Word is truth”. [1]

With all of this truth being spoken, presented, argued for, and declared, one would think that people everywhere love the truth.

Nothing, however, could be further from the TRUTH.

While all of us may love our own version, or interpretation of the truth, the fact is that our human nature rebels against any truth that causes us to examine ourselves in the light of scripture. I run into this regularly when I remind someone who tells me they are a Christian that they cannot possibly be a lover of Jesus while simultaneously advocating the murder of unborn children.

Sorry, but the last time I checked, the word “Christian” still meant Christlike. I find no evidence in all of scripture to support the premise that Jesus Christ advocated the killing of any person. Of course, if the ruling of the U.S. Supreme Court trumps the Word of God in a person who declares themselves to be Christian, I can see where they would think that their views are compatible with Biblical Christianity.

They would be wrong, but I get it.

Of course, this is not a new revelation. Men and women have always been rebellious when confronted with the often uncomfortable truths of God’s word, a fact traceable all the way back to the garden of Eden and those rebels named Adam and Eve. Seems that TRUTH wasn’t something they were interested in at the time either. [2]

History has shown that this is the example that all of humanity would choose to follow. The truth, often being painful and convicting, is sacrificed on the altar of convenience so that we, like our “garden-abiding” ancestors before us, can have it our way. Oddly enough, it would appear that we humans are all too willing to swallow a lie rather than choke on the truth.

In all seriousness, that many would believe a lie rather than accept the truth is evidenced by the Apostle Paul’s stern warning that this would be the impetus by which the whole world would accept the antichrist. [3] This partly explains the insatiable desire we seem to have to place people in positions of authority who will tell us what we want to hear, irrespective of the truth.

These are dangerous, deceiving times that we live in. The sheer volume of lies being tossed about today make it difficult to separate them from the truth. This is exactly why there must be a standard for truth, a standard by which every thought can be measured. A standard that is defensible, irrefutable, and perhaps most importantly, uncompromising.

At the end of the day, there is only one Truth that fits such lofty criteria. This truth is contained in a book that is likely to be found in a great percentage of American homes. This book is acknowledged as the best selling of all time. You may have heard of it, for it has a very familiar title…

The Bible.

There is but one Truth. It has stood the test of time, and will stand when this world is on fire.

My prayer is that all will desire this Truth.

Have a blessed day everyone!

Ron

[1] John 17:17

[2] Genesis 3:1-5

[3] 2 Thessalonians 2:10-12

Generational Curses: are we free or not?

In today’s post I want to address the issue of “Generational Curses”.

For those unfamiliar with the term, it implies that if you or someone you know struggles with an addiction, domestic violence, depression, or any other unfavorable trait it is likely because someone in your family tree has also had to deal with it.

Hence the “Generational Curse”. It is passed on to each succeeding generation.

Where does this idea come from? It comes from the Old Testament. After God had instructed Moses to ascend Mount Sinai with two new stone tablets (that He would again write the Ten Commandments on), the Lord appeared to Moses in a cloud and there He proclaimed the following:

“Keeping mercy for thousands, forgiving iniquity and transgression and sin, and that will by no means clear the guilty; visiting (punishing) the iniquity of the fathers upon the children, and upon the children’s children, unto the third and to the fourth generation.” [1]

Here we find the Lord telling Moses that He will forgive acknowledged sin and transgressions but will punish unrepentant sin and transgressions for generations. This is where the common idea comes from that a child must pay for the sins of the father.

We find this same thought farther along in the Old Testament book of Lamentations. Having endured incredible persecution after having been carried away in the Captivity, the prophet Jeremiah calls upon the Lord for mercy.

In his passionate plea he refers to God’s chosen as orphans and fatherless, and their mothers as widows. He goes on to mention how that they are required to buy their own water if they are to drink, and describes their own wood being sold to them. He says their necks are under persecution, and they have no rest from their labor. [2]

In the middle of his humble prayer Jeremiah acknowledges the sinfulness of the people.

Our fathers sinned, and are no more; It is we who have borne their iniquities. [3]

He rightly lays the blame for what has come upon them at the feet of their ancestors that sinned. These unrepentant transgressions caused God to allow them to be carried away as captives, enslaved once again by a foreign army. These ancestors are now all dead, but it is Jeremiah’s generation who must now pay this awful price for what they did.

All of this brings us to ask the question: does this same Generational Curse ‘law’ exist for Christians today? Is it possible that the reason so many Christians struggle with specific areas of their lives is because they are still under a Generational Curse?

Well, to be sure there is no shortage of Christian ministers out there that teach that Generational Curses are still applicable to the Christian today. [4]

To find the truth however, we must look to the Word of God, not popular books written by popular ministers. When it comes to the subject of generational curses, there is no more definitive response than that found in Galatians 3:13.

Christ has redeemed us from the curse of the law, having become a curse for us (for it is written, “Cursed is everyone who hangs on a tree”).

Through His death, burial, and resurrection Jesus Christ paid every sin debt and broke every curse. He accomplished this by becoming a curse in our place. He who knew no sin or iniquity became accursed for you and me.

He abolished for all time any curse, generational or otherwise that may have been placed upon your life. Curses have no hold on your life after you have accepted Jesus as Lord and Savior. They are no longer the stronghold that you once struggled with.

Personally, I find it nearly unbelievable that these same people who want to declare that everything we could ever need, including physical healing, was provided for in the Atonement, also teach that this same Atonement couldn’t break the power of a Generational Curse.

This is mind boggling. Either Jesus Christ broke the chains of sin and death, or he did not. There cannot be an exception or any exclusions. Did not Jesus tell us that He came that we might have life, even an abundant life? How in the world can we live this abundant life while under the bondage of some Generational Curse?

The answer of course is that we cannot! Therefore, every curse was broken at Calvary, so that you would be free indeed to live out this Incredible, abundant life that God wants you to be living.

Does this mean that our struggles are over? Of course not! As long as we live upon this earth, we will be continually tested by an adversary that does not want to turn loose of you. Be that as it may, we are FREE in Jesus Christ!

The Apostle Paul very clearly tells us that he was free, completely free from any law of sin and death. Every Christian enjoys this same liberty in Christ. “Whom the Son sets free, is free indeed”. [6]

And yes, that includes any Generational Curse.

Be blessed on this Lord’s day!

Ron

 

[1] Exodus 34:7

[2] Lamentations 5:1-5

[3] Lamentations 5:7

[4] See “Breaking Generational Curses” by Marilyn Hickey, “How to Break Generational Curses” by Tony Evans, “Breaking Generational Curses”, “Free at Last”, by Larry Huch

[5] Romans 8:2 “For the law of the Spirit of life in Christ Jesus has made me free from the law of sin and death”.

[6] John 8:36

 

A grateful and appreciative heart

Now that the traditional day of Thanksgiving is over, I thought I’d follow up on my last post with a bit more on what it means to me personally to be both grateful and thankful, particularly in regards to our relationship with our Heavenly Father.

I feel it is very important to maintain a grateful and appreciative heart for the things I have received in this life. Notice that I said the word maintain. That means we have to work at it, otherwise it’s not going to happen. Maintaining a grateful and appreciative heart is all on us, and it doesn’t happen automatically. If you’ve ever slipped into one of those moments when you just don’t feel very thankful, you know what I’m talking about.

By the same token, that I am able to say I am a child of God often leaves me nearly speechless. If you could have seen the person I used to be, you would have numbered me with those who were destined for the scrap heap of humanity.

How God can find something useful in any of us leaves me scratching my head. Have you ever felt this way?

Even today, over 40 years after accepting the Lord Jesus as my Savior, I marvel at God’s unique ability to see past what we were and slowly bring to fruition what we are destined to become. Seriously, who but God can do such things?

I made so many mistakes in my early Christian life that I sometimes wondered why I should even bother trying to live for Him. Comparing myself to other, more mature Christians left me shaking my head wondering how in the world they do it. How could these people never make mistakes? How could they always be so faithful?

Well, as all of us know by now, none of us are perfect are we? Neither do we always have it all together like we want others to believe we do. You see, it doesn’t matter if you’ve been a Christian for four days, forty days, or forty years, we still live in a fallen world that is wrought with one peril after another. Everywhere we turn there are challenges and obstacles in our path.

Some days remaining faithful to Him seems more like a dream than a reality. Can you relate? Can I get an “Amen”!

I will be forever thankful for what God has done in my life. After much work and countless hours spent upon the Potter’s wheel, he has slowly transformed me from a wild, bitter, and angry young man into someone who is now almost unrecognizable from the person I was. I say that knowing full well that He still has much to do to help me to reach my full potential.

No one needs to remind me that I am a man who has been blessed far beyond what I truly deserve. The Lord has taken me from being a blasphemous, proud, and unthankful heathen to a man after God’s own heart. [1]

How could I not praise him for what he has done?

For all that the Lord has done in my life, nothing compares with how that in an instant He changed the course of my eternal destination. I who was once on the fast track to Hell and eternal separation from all that is good, has had his soul re-routed to a destination where joy shall never end.

As my friend Bill Sweeney says, it may sound corny, but I actually believe that one day I’m going to a far better place because of Jesus. [2]

I would be remiss if I failed to mention how thankful and how grateful I am to have by my side the most wonderful wife anyone could ever hope to have. The mere fact that she’s still here is a testament to her abiding love for me. When I think of how much she has had to put up with through the years, I am presented with a clear picture of love, dedication, sacrifice, and commitment.

This may surprise many of you, but I lean towards being very strong-willed(insert smile here). I suppose that comes from being raised the way I was, that and being in positions of authority and responsibility for a large part of my life. My point being, sometimes it isn’t easy to live with someone like me, yet my sweet Princess somehow manages to keep me in check.

She is the calming voice of reason when I want to take a situation in my own hands to right a wrong that may have been done. She is the great communicator in our home when at times I want to clam up, satisfied within my own mind that I know all there is to know about the situation.

I am convinced that God brought us together in a Divine manner at just the right time. Two broken and shattered lives, neither looking for or ever expecting to love again. Yet God somehow orchestrated things so that we would meet one day in the foyer of a church, a church she was visiting only because of a friends invitation.

I could never have imagined that this shy young lady who wouldn’t even make eye contact with me when we were introduced, would one day complete me in a way I never thought possible and that together we would write our own Love Story.

These are just some of the reasons why I am a thankful and grateful man today. And yes, it is true, there are days when I need to be reminded of all of this. When I am, I’m humbled once again at the realization of where I’ve come from and where I’m destined to go.

For all of this, I am forever grateful and appreciative to my Savior.

Have a blessed day everyone!

Ron

[1] 2 Timothy 3:2 (KJV)

[2] For more of Bill Sweeney’s story of how the Lord has sustained him through a long battle with ALS, check out his website here: https://unshakablehope.com/about/

 

 

 

This demon named “Regret”

Is there one among us who has lived their life in such a manner that they can look back upon it and say “I have no regrets”?

I can state categorically that I am disqualified from being able to make such a claim. When we think of regrets we see images of things we wish we had not done, or at the least done them differently. I stand guilty as charged.

We remember conversations we’ve had with family and friends that did not turn out well, and we wish we had spoken with more kindness. Perhaps what we remember most is that conversation we meant to have, but never got around to having.

The voice of my wife on the night that her father passed away serves as a reminder to me about how it should be when we do things in a way that is pleasing to the Lord. As we drove away from her fathers home that night she looked at me and said this: “I have no regrets. There is nothing left unsaid between us. He knew how I felt about him and I knew how he felt about me because we often told each other”.

There it is…no regrets. Nothing left undone or unsaid. For the rest of her days on this earth my sweet wife can live peacefully knowing that there is no reason to look back and wonder ‘what if?’

The pain of regret for the rest of us is very real though isn’t it? That is why I refer to it as a demon. It brings with it pain and suffering over what might have been…what should have been.

Regret is relentless in its goal of keeping our eyes fixed on our rear view mirror. The enemy knows that as long as he can keep us looking back, we will never be able to look ahead. Up ahead awaits victory, while behind us lies a minefield of defeat.

Past mistake and failures of every sort are hurled at our minds at warp speed, rarely giving us a moments respite from the battle. Oh, and the enemy doesn’t care a bit that a past regret wasn’t your fault. You see, even if it wasn’t your fault he wants to transfer ownership of it to you because once you own it, he will use it against you at every opportunity.

Do you see how diabolical Satan is?

The enemy doesn’t even care that when you became a Christian that you were made a new creation. It doesn’t matter to him that the Bible teaches us that ‘old things are passed way’. He has no regard for the fact that as followers of Jesus Christ we now have ‘the mind of Christ’.  [1]   [2]

None of that matters to Satan. All that matters to him is that you keep looking backwards and not forwards, back to the path of destruction carved by an endless array of regrets.

So what is the child of God to do about this demon named “Regret”?

One of the first things we must do is acknowledge that we cannot undo the past. We get no ‘do-overs’. The best we can do is try to make amends where necessary, but the fact remains that what’s done is done.  [3]

Another thing we must do is to turn the situation over to the Lord in prayer. Peter explains it best here:

Therefore humble yourselves under the mighty hand of God, that He may exalt you in due time, casting all your care upon Him, for He cares for you”. [4]

When we give it to God we are to leave it with Him. Of course, this is easier said than done because the enemy will never accept this as the final word on the matter. As I said earlier, he will bring this up to you time and time again in an effort to turn your attention to the past and not the future.

The Apostle Paul went so far as to suggest that we forget those things that are in our past. Paul knew of course that if he was to ever fulfill his destiny in Christ, it would be because he steadfastly looked ahead and not behind him. [5]

Forgetting our past sins and mistakes is not easy. It never is. I’m sure many of us have forgotten our past sins and mistakes many times. No doubt, we will forget them many more times before we leave this life.

When Paul says to forget those things which are behind us, he wasn’t trying to say that they are zapped from our memories never to be drudged up again. What he meant was that we should be so forward-focused that the past stays in the past.

That is how we get the victory over this demon called ‘Regret’. We leave it in the past and focus on running the race that is before us. Regret is a crippling, joy stealing invention of the devil that has no power over us unless we give it power.

As for me and my house, we choose to look ahead to the future that God has ordained we should have. We are free, having been set free by the blood of the Lamb.

“So if the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed”. [6]

Keep looking straight ahead,

Ron

 

[1] 2nd Corinthians 5:17

[2] 1 Corinthians 2:16

[3] Matthew 5:24

[4] 1st Peter 5:6,7

[5] Philippians 3:13

[6] John 8:36

It’s ok to love from a distance!

Do you struggle with making steady progress in your walk with the Lord because of certain people in your life that keep pulling you away from Him?

Do you ever feel like ‘taking two steps forward and one step backward’ sums up your life?

Do the failures, hurts, and disappointments from your past continually haunt you to the point of nearly paralyzing you, thus rendering you unable to effectively live for Christ?

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If any of this sounds like I’m reading your mind, it’s because almost all of us are in these same predicaments. Let’s face it, the struggle is real, and we are locked in a very real battle with a very real enemy.

I have lived long enough to understand that all of us struggle at times, but not all of us struggle for the same reasons. In addition, we may also find ourselves struggling with situations not of our own choosing, and therefore out of our control.

With that in mind, I want to focus on a particular area of struggle that we can control, which is who we allow into our lives.

This can be a difficult subject to deal with for a Christian, first of all because God is love, and as his children we are taught to love people. The idea of keeping anyone at arms length is not easy for some because they equate that with a lack of love.

It was Jesus after all who said that “no greater love has a man than this, that he would lay down his life for his friends”.  From this verse we find the heart of God, and it is only natural for us to desire to emulate that very same love.  [1]

So, again, we who are followers of Jesus Christ must love people because that is the commandment of our Savior.

No doubt you have heard it said that Christians are to “love the sinner but hate the sin”, or some variant of that. That means that we are to look past the sin in a person’s life and see their need for a Savior.

Personally, I believe this to be sound advice. We must be careful however to understand that while we should love without regard to lifestyle choices, habits, etc, we must be very careful as to how much influence we allow these same people to exert over us.

And yes, that includes those who profess Christ but live as though they know nothing about Him. This is made perfectly clear to us in Paul’s second letter to Timothy where he said we were to turn away from such people.   [2]

It is (hopefully) obvious to us as Christians that we cannot permit the enemy to gain a foothold in our homes and in the lives of our family members. We must remain vigilant against the methodology of the adversary, because he routinely transforms himself into something that we would be attracted to.   [3]

In other words, our enemy isn’t likely to appear on your doorstep wearing a red cape, horns, and carrying a pitchfork. He will however appear in such a manner as to put you at ease long enough to deceive you!

This is where loving from a distance comes into play. Instead of opening our hearts to things that might harm us, we should proceed with caution. And yes, it is perfectly alright to say NO to someone!

As a matter of fact, scripture teaches us to keep the world at an arms length from us. Paul actually used a stronger word when he said we should come out from among them and separate ourselves.

And what agreement hath the temple of God with idols? for ye are the temple of the living God; as God hath said, I will dwell in them, and walk in them; and I will be their God, and they shall be my people. Wherefore come out from among them, and be ye separate, saith the Lord, and touch not the unclean thing; and I will receive you. 2nd Corinthians 6:16,17

If we are to live victoriously in Christ, it will be because through Christ we have conquered our past failures and disappointments. Through Him we will have buried the demons that used to haunt us.

“You can’t defeat the demons you keep playing with” is a popular internet meme quoted frequently all over the web today by many preachers and Christian entertainers.

It is a very powerful truth as well.

To continue “playing with” them is to invite certain destruction into our lives because having fellowship with darkness is diametrically opposite of what scripture teaches us in Ephesians 5:11.  [4]

As children of the King, we are to love all people simply because everyone, saint and sinner alike, has been created in the image of God. Never forget that while we were yet sinners ,Christ died for us.

Wisdom, however, dictates that loving from a distance until you really get to know a person is not only prudent, it may just save you much heartache.

Have a blessed day everyone,

Ron

[1] John 15:13

[2] 2nd Timothy 3:5

[3] 2nd Corinthians 11:14

[4] Ephesians 5:11

 

 

Old habits sure are hard to break

I like to talk to people. It doesn’t matter to me if they’re young or old, male or female, or what nationality they may claim. I find people interesting, and I enjoy striking up a conversation with them.

I’m that guy who goes to Walmart with his wife and disappears for a few minutes, only to be found two aisles over talking to someone he’s never met before.

Yep, that guy.

If I see someone just moving in the neighborhood I’ll probably strike up a conversation with them the first chance I get. Just did that a few days ago as a matter of fact.

The ladies in my house think my talking to complete strangers is a bit odd.

They may be right.

What’s funny (to me) about this is that until I was in my early 20’s I was extremely shy and socially awkward. Even looking someone in the eyes was a major struggle for me. Maybe some of you can relate?

It wasn’t until I became a Christian and began to grown in my faith that I actually began to see myself as “good enough” and on equal footing as the rest of the world. Oh sure, I had plenty of people telling me that I would never be more than the shy, introverted country boy I’d always been, but I was determined to be more than that.

By the grace of God and the support of the best wife in the world I went farther than what anyone ever thought I would or could. Along the way I found my voice and God opened many, many doors for me to use it. Again, it was nothing I did. To God be the Glory for every good thing that has come my way!

So, as I said, I enjoy talking to people. I’m finding out however, that I’m not supposed to be doing that any longer, at least not without some restraints. Let me explain.

A few months ago I was out walking and the school bus dropped off a young lady and as the bus pulled away, I said hello to her. She didn’t respond, which I took to mean she didn’t hear me. So I said something to the effect of “I bet you’re glad to be out of school for the day, aren’t you”? This time she murmured something that I couldn’t understand. With that, she seemed to pick up the pace and hurried to get home.

Odd, I thought.

Just last night I was wandering around Target and I hear the familiar sounds of SuperMario coming from the electronics section of the store. I used to love playing Mario when it first came out, so I was naturally drawn to the sounds.

As I round the corner I see a young boy about 10 years of age intently focused on the game he was playing. He was pretty good at it and I complimented him on his skills. In response he barely glanced over his shoulder at me. I watched a few more seconds and told him that I too used to love to play Mario, and this time he didn’t even look at me. The silence felt very awkward, so I quickly left.

Recounting these events with my family I was told that I was probably thought of as an old creeper. In other words, I cannot strike up a conversation with children I don’t know, because I will be thought of as a potential predator.

As I listened to my daughter(who works with kids at a day care)tell me about how I should keep to myself when I’m around strange kids, it all started to make sense and I knew she was right. After all, no telling how many times these kids have been told about “Stranger Danger”. To them, I’m just another old guy that wants to harm them.

I get it.

Still, none of this sits well with me. I don’t like not being able to smile at a child or make over a baby in the store without it stepping over some line that society has deemed uncrossable. It’s just an automatic, natural thing to want to say “hi”.

Honestly, I get it.

Sadly, I get it.

Actually, tit’s kind of heartbreaking if you want to know the truth about it.

So I guess I’m left to wander around the store, hands in my pockets, eyes straight ahead, wearing blinders so I don’t notice the children. I’m to pretend there are nothing but grown ups within 100 yards of me. Which really stinks, because I seem to get along much better with kids than people my own age.

And that my friends, is the society we have descended into. Not much more to say about that I suppose.

Old habits sure are hard to break…I wonder how long it’ll be before I smile at some kid and ask “how ya doin”?

Be blessed on this Lord’s day,

Ron

The Sounds of Silence in God’s House

Have you ever felt grieved over something you cared deeply about, but had no control over? Lately, I’ve been feeling this way, like someone who just stepped out of the pages of the Old Testament.

Like Jacob of old, I have wrestled with the Lord over this post because I know as soon as it is read, I will be branded a critic of the Church. Unlike Jacob however, I have given up trying to hide my feelings any longer and admit that I am defeated.

Let me explain.

Whenever it became necessary for the Lord to deliver a message of correction to His people Israel, often He would raise up a man or woman and instruct them to go to the people and deliver the message. We refer to these servants as Prophets.

These Prophets are scattered throughout the Old Testament. Some we have labeled as “Minor Prophets” while others are called “Major Prophets”. All of them were called of God for a specific task and season in the history of Israel.

Of the many things these Prophets had in common, one was that they all shared a burden for God’s people. They bore this spiritual weight in their hearts because the people loved the pleasures of sin more than they loved God.

Oftentimes, as in the case of the Prophet Jeremiah, the magnitude of the weight they bore would reduce them to tears and cries of anguish. [1]

While I am certainly no Prophet, I can empathize with them because of something amiss among God’s people today. In fact, if I dwell on it too long, I become almost grief stricken. What is it that has me feeling this way?

It is the sound of silence in God’s house.

It is the realization that the church no longer desires revival; thus, she no longer travails in expectation of a new awakening. Rejecting the call from above to “come out from among them” [2], she has decided instead to align herself with the world, and in the process has rejected the Lord of Glory.

There is no longer a sound of weeping and anguish in the house of God over our spiritual barrenness, and the sound of this silence is deafening.

The church of Jesus Christ has married the world and thus has come under its spell. In doing so, the church is now more impacted by the world than the world is impacted by the church. Who can deny this truth?

We have sold our birthright.

I grieve because the church no longer wants God, but rather has discovered a way to carry on without Him. Remove the Holy Spirit from the church? No problem, hardly a soul will notice as we carry on with our regimented programs disguised as religion.

In our efforts to appease the masses, we have compromised all that made us unique, and our birthright has been auctioned off on the altar of pragmatism. We have copied the error of ancient Israel, who rejected the Almighty in favor of a flawed and imperfect king. [3]

I am distraught over the absence of Holy men and women of God, those who have been in His presence and now carry with them the burdens of a people gone astray. Where are those who have heard His voice, who have received the clarion call to sound the alarm and cry aloud for the church to return to its former glory? How long will they remain silent?

Incredulously, in the span of but a few generations the church has become little more than Sunday morning entertainment. Impassioned, God-inspired, soul searching sermons have given way to polished speeches that have more in common with the mantra of positive thinking than they do with the Word of God!

Instead of preparing our hearts for an encounter with the Holy One, we have created a sterile, guilt free environment where our hearts will never be pricked, and our conscious will remain unseared.

This environment is better suited for a coffee house or a nightclub, places where one never need concern themselves with being confronted with the sin that permeates their life.

We dim the lights and crank up the sound system in our efforts to mask the reality that we no longer walk in the Spirit, therefore we are resigned to manufacture a spirit of our own. The cheering thousands are proof enough that we have found the right formula.

Never mind that weeping and anguish of soul are no longer found in God’s house. The church now exists to make us feel good about ourselves, and all who enter its doors have entered a “Guilt Free Zone’. We have created a safe place where sin is never acknowledged or confronted. Come as you are and leave as you came.

We do not want revival. We do not want a return to the old paths. We do not want a fresh revelation from God as to the pitiful condition our souls are in. No, we want none of things because if we did, we would have them!

If the church wanted revival, it would have revival. It would pay any price in order to once again be endued with power from on High. But the church does not want revival because to have it means she would have to divorce herself from the harlot, worldly system it has aligned itself with.

The church is not inclined to return to the old paths, where the good way was [4]. To do so would force us to choose whether we will be hot or cold. To return to the old paths would force us from our lofty seat on the fence of mediocrity and lukewarmness, and we are quite comfortable there, aren’t we?

Instead, we want to be like the world in nearly every respect, while still calling ourselves “Christian”, and we will stop at nothing to accomplish this goal.

What has this illegitimate marriage given us? It has given us a parade of sexual predators in the church that has left untold thousands broken and bleeding in its wake.

It has given us a litany of ‘wolves in sheep’s clothing’ [5] disguised as clergy who reject the teachings of scripture in order to cozy up to the world, thus allowing every conceivable and base lifestyle to stand in the pulpit and declare their own twisted version of ‘truth’.

It has given us an anemic and sick substitute for Christ’s church, the very church He bled and died for. What is supposed to be His Body has been rendered powerless to stem the tide of sin and degradation that has enveloped it.

Such a church has forfeited its birthright and is no longer Christ’s representative on the earth. It is a counterfeit, and the deafening silence from within its lukewarm walls is proof enough that she is in danger of being rejected by the Lord. [6]

May God have mercy on us…

Ron

 

 

[1] Jeremiah is often referred to as the “Weeping Prophet because of his own words in chapter 9, verse 1: Oh, that my head were waters, and my eyes a fountain of tears, that I might weep day and night for the slain of my people!

[2] 2 Cor.6:17 Wherefore come out from among them, and be separate, says the Lord, and touch not the unclean thing, and I will receive you.

[3] 1 Samuel 8:19 Nevertheless the people refused to obey the voice of Samuel; and they said, No, but we will have a king over us.

[4] Jeremiah 6:16 Thus says the Lord, Stand you in the ways, and see, and ask for the old paths, where is the good way, and walk therein, and you shall find rest for your souls. But they said, we will not walk in them.

[5] Matthew 7:15 Beware of false prophets, which come to you in sheep’s clothing, but inwardly they are ravening wolves.

[6] Rev. 3:16 So then because you are lukewarm, and neither cold nor hot, I will vomit you out of my mouth.