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Sexual abuse in the Church: has this become an acceptable sin?

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Readers of this blog are well aware that I have not shied away from taking to task the many sexual predators who are part of the Catholic Church hierarchy. Whether the abuser is a Priest, a Bishop, or a Pope, there is a seemingly endless trail of shattered and broken lives in the wake of the unprecedented abuse of the Catholic Church’s many deviant and perverted sexual predators.

That is not to say that the Catholic Church stands alone in its abuse of innocent boys and girls. Far from it. As today’s church rejects the clear teaching of God’s Word, thus becoming less Christ-like in the process, it is becoming more and more like the world, willingly taking upon it the sins and iniquities for which Christ died.

In essence, what we are witnessing today is the proverbial “I want my cake and I want to eat it too”. In other words, the Church wants to be recognized as Christ’s representative here on earth, but at the same time want to indulge itself in the vile sins of the world. Such are men and women who have had their conscious seared with a hot iron. [1]

That being said, it would be unfair of me to fail to call out these same types of predators who ‘worship’ in other churches, so today’s blog will center around the recent sexual abuse scandal that has been brought to light in the Baptist church.

Before I begin, I am well aware that this is not a popular subject. There will be no “Amens!” shouted from the pew. No one will applaud this message because the truth is most people would rather not know of these abuses in the Church.

When I speak on subjects like this, it usually generates silence. No one wants to believe that their church leader could be guilty of such heinous behavior. And besides, the attitude that some things are best left unsaid is just as alive in the church today as it always has been.

All of that aside, I recently came across an article in the Houston Chronicle that details a pattern of sexual abuse in Baptist churches in Texas going as far back as 1998. In that time, approximately 380 Southern Baptist church leaders and volunteers have faced allegations of sexual misconduct for their abuse of over 700 victims.  [2]

The pattern of sexual perverion and abuse in these Baptist churches differs little from that which is taking place in the Catholic Church. Indeed, a summary of the article linked above details a very similar approach to sexual abuse.

“Many of the victims were adolescents who were molested, sent explicit photos or texts, exposed to pornography, photographed nude, or repeatedly raped by youth pastors. Some victims as young as 3 were molested or raped inside pastors’ studies and Sunday school classrooms. A few were adults — women and men who sought pastoral guidance and instead say they were seduced or sexually assaulted.”

So, a reasonable person might wonder what in the world is going on here? These are not isolated incidences of a rogue minister gone bad. This is a clear and established pattern of sexual corruption and abuse. This is also a very clear testimony to the fact that these ‘ministers’ are wolves in sheeps clothing, unregenerate in heart.

How can such things be permitted to happen, or better yet how could these predators have been allowed to remain in positions of power and authority?

One of the answers to those questions, and there are many, is that there is an expectation that members of the church, in particular the clergy, will conduct themselves in such a manner as to exhibit the highest moral and ethical behavior possible. They are,after all, supposedly representing God as they fulfill the duties of their position.  [3]

That is the expectation at least, one I believe that is shared by most.

Because the expectation is that the clergy will always take the high road, it can be difficult for laypersons to believe that any of them could actually be capable of committing such acts of sexual violence against our childeren. Thus, it makes it easier to either disregard an allegation or choose to simply look the other way when confronted with the evidence.

Disregarding ANY allegation however is completely unacceptable, no matter how uncomfortable it may be. I can think of no place where this should be permitted, most certainly not the Church. Choosing to look the other way in the face of sexual abuse allegations is tantamount to saying “I don’t care”.

Every single sexual abuse allegation MUST be investigated to the full extent of the law, and perpetrators found guilty must be punished according to the same extent of the law. Anyone found guilty of covering up sexual abuse in the church is just as guilty as the perpetrator, and MUST share in the guilt of the offender and must also be punished accordingly.

Beloved, these things are taking place because the Church, just like the world in which she abides, is systematically severing its relationship with the Almighty. Having convinced itself that it is above reproach, there is nothing off limits to it as she seeks to disregard the clear admonition of scripture to “come out from among them, and be ye separate, and touch not the unclean thing…”. [4]

Church leaders of every denomination would do well to read again the words of Jesus as he spoke to the Laodicean church this warning:

So then, because you are lukewarm, and neither cold nor hot, I will vomit you out of My mouth. Because you say, ‘I am rich, have become wealthy, and have need of nothing’—and do not know that you are wretched, miserable, poor, blind, and naked— I counsel you to buy from Me gold refined in the fire, that you may be rich; and white garments, that you may be clothed, that the shame of your nakedness may not be revealed; and anoint your eyes with eye salve, that you may see. As many as I love, I rebuke and chasten.” Rev. 3:16-19

Rest assured, the day is coming when every deed will be judged. No one will escape the judgement seat of Christ. Not Catholic, Baptist, or any other religious person.

In that day, Jesus said that he would separate the sheep on his right hand from the goats on his left hand. Many will be shocked to see those they had held in high esteem being ordered to stand with the goats, as their sins will be made known to all. [5]

God’s Church deserves better then this. Jesus Christ was mocked, beaten, and whipped until nearly dead. Forced to carry the instrument of his own impending death, He staggered through the streets until reaching the place of execution. Without hesitation He allowed his hands and feet to be nailed to the Cross, after which He was elevated above the earth so all could see Him. Hanging there naked, blood pouring out of his body, he became the Supreme Sacrifice for the sins of all men.

This is the True Leader of the Church! I submit to you that any man or woman who is guilty of perverse sexual sin against His Church, has never had an encounter with Him!

Ron

 

[1] 1 Timothy 4:2

[2]https://www.houstonchronicle.com/news/investigations/article/Southern-Baptist-sexual-abuse-spreads-as-leaders-13588038.php?fbclid=IwAR2BdtoC8nvXuizrZhBcvQ5vAz9AA8lgWGltfCZDnDO1BAsQPcDEpwFH4VM

[3] Titus 1:7

[4] 2 Corinthians 6:17

[5] Matthew 25:32-46

 

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God’s Perfect Order

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I’ve often heard it said that God is a God of order. For example, He set the planets in perfect alignment with the rest of the solar system. In doing so, we find that Earth is positioned exactly where it has to be in relation to the Sun and Moon in order to sustain life.

So precise is God’s perfect natural order that scientists have learned that the Earth’s axis is tilted at exactly 23.4 degrees relative to the plane of its orbit around the Sun. It is because of this precise angle of tilt that we have our yearly cycle of four seasons. [1]

If the Earth’s axis were to somehow tilt even a 10th of a degree more or less either way, life as we know it would cease. Seasons would change dramatically, plant life could not adapt in time before dying, and the Sun would leave much of the Earth in darkness for months at a time. [2]

Only God has the capability to prevent such such a catastrophic event from happening. Were He not a God of perfect natural order, our very survival would be jeopardized.

So it is with God in the spiritual realm. God is a God of perfect spiritual order. He is the Creator, we are the created. He is high and lifted up, and his thoughts and ways are higher than ours.

Just as the Earth cannot survive without God maintaining it on its perfect axis of 23.4 degrees, neither can we live the life that the Lord intends for us to have when our relationship with Him is out of order spiritually.

We need look no further than our own daily walk with Him to see this in action. We know that there is only One who’s judgments are true and righteous, yet how many of us are guilty of judging others based upon the outward appearance? When we see someone for example who is of a different color skin than we are, does prejudice or bias kick in immediately? Are we instantly suspicious of them?

Or what about the person we see on the street that is obviously homeless? Do we look the other way when they look at us? Do we find their smell repulsive? Do we think to ourselves that they should get a job like the rest of us and stop being a bum?

Let’s be completely honest here. There are very, very few of us that can truthfully say that we never think such thoughts about others. As holy and pious as we want to believe we are, the fact is we are still 100% human, with our sin nature still intact. Fight it though we may, it is still very much alive in all of us.

If we are not careful, we can find ourselves living our lives in a manner we were never equipped to do. What I mean by that is we will find that we have positioned ourselves as judge, jury, and executioner over those we deem as “not like us”.

This is an attitude that affects the church as much if not more than the rest of society. We take it upon ourselves to determine who is ‘worthy’ of our love. We decide who gets ministered to based upon our own very flawed criteria.

When these things happen it is because things are out of God’s perfect spiritual order. It is when we override our conscious and walk contrary to God Word that we set ourselves up in positions we were never created to assume.

The late Rev. Billy Graham was often quoted as saying that “It is the Holy Spirit’s job to convict, God’s job to judge, and my job to love”. [3]

Think about that for a moment. Our job is to love. That doesn’t mean that we have to agree with everything someone says, especially if we know it violates God’s Word. It also doesn’t mean that we are required to condone the immoral lifestyle that a person chooses to live.

What it does mean is that we are not God. We lack the capacity to see past the veil of this flesh in order to know the heart. It means that as a flawed child of God, I am not qualified to act as judge.

Our job is to love, which is why Jesus said that the two greatest commandments centered around Love.

And behold, a lawyer stood up to put him to the test, saying, “Teacher, what shall I do to inherit eternal life?” He said to him, “What is written in the Law? How do you read it?” And he answered, “You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength and with all your mind, and your neighbor as yourself.” And he said to him, “You have answered correctly; do this, and you will live.   Luke 10:25-28

When God’s perfect spiritual order is established in the church, the end result is a community built upon Love.

Now that’s a community I want to belong to!

Be blessed,

Ron

[1] https://www.solarsystemscope.com/spacepedia/earth/orbital-and-rotational-characteristics-of-earth

[2] https://image.gsfc.nasa.gov/poetry/ask/q278.html

[3] https://relevantmagazine.com/god/14-billy-graham-quotes-helped-shape-american-christianity-update-new

When Religion Takes Priority Over Ministry

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Unless you live in a bubble, a cave, or in a penthouse surrounded by opulence, you cannot help but see the misery of suffering humanity all around.  On the TV, on the sidewalks of your city, standing in line at a food bank, dialing the crisis hotline, misery and suffering are things this world has an abundance of.

But what if you don’t live in a bubble, a cave, or a penthouse and yet see nothing of the sufferings of humanity that are all around you? What then?

There is an old saying that goes something like this: “there is none so blind, as he who will not see”. The meaning of this is that there are people who willingly choose not to see by closing their minds and their hearts to their surroundings. [1]

Such are those in our day who are ‘religious’ in name only. They have the title but not the heart. They want the appearance of godliness but not the costs associated with it. To maintain appearances within the community they open their checkbooks, but never their hearts.

Jesus had a name for religious people like this. He called them hypocrites. Not a very flattering term, is it? And while it is easy to look at them with disdain, in all honesty, most of us would have to plead “guilty” to some degree of hypocrisy as well. Pretending to be something we’re not comes rather easily for us, does it not?

Jesus had an encounter one day with just such a person while teaching in the synagogue. Follow along with me as we find Him confronting the high priest on a certain Sabbath day.

Now He was teaching in one of the synagogues on the Sabbath.
And behold, there was a woman who had a spirit of infirmity eighteen years, and was bent over and could in no way raise herself up.
But when Jesus saw her, He called her to Him and said to her, “Woman, you are loosed from your infirmity.”
And He laid His hands on her, and immediately she was made straight, and glorified God.
But the ruler of the synagogue answered with indignation, because Jesus had healed on the Sabbath; and he said to the crowd, “There are six days on which men ought to work; therefore come and be healed on them, and not on the Sabbath day.”
The Lord then answered him and said, “Hypocrite! Does not each one of you on the Sabbath loose his ox or donkey from the stall, and lead it away to water it?
“So ought not this woman, being a daughter of Abraham, whom Satan has bound for eighteen years, be loosed from this bond on the Sabbath?”
And when He said these things, all His adversaries were put to shame; and all the multitude rejoiced for all the glorious things that were done by Him.   Luke 13:10-17

This story perfectly illustrates how religion separated from a relationship with Christ can become more important than ministry. The religious leader was concerned only with the letter of the Law, rather than the spirit of the Law. His strict interpretation was that no one should lift a finger to perform any type of work on the Sabbath Day, and in his view what Jesus did in healing the woman was work. Thus he was condemning Jesus for healing on the Sabbath.

Isn’t it amazing how ‘hard’ and uncaring religion can be? When it’s more important to follow your creed than it is to follow your heart, something is terribly wrong. When rigidly enforcing “the rules” takes precedence over serving others, we are out of step with our Savior.

For eighteen long years this woman had not been able to stand upright. Have you seen someone like this? I have seen several people in this condition, where their body was permanently affixed in a jackknife position. Some are so bad that their life has been condemned to staring at the floor because they can no longer look up. It is truly a horrible affliction. [2]

This is the situation that Jesus was confronted with that day in the synagogue, and I doubt He hesitated even for a moment to reach out to this woman. While everyone else came that day to hear the Law taught, Jesus had a divine appointment with someone in need of much more than words!

Did you notice how the high priest told Jesus that there were six other days in which to work? I guess he would have preferred that Jesus tell the woman to “come back tomorrow’ than for Him to heal her right then.

That’s another difference between religion and ministry. Religion doesn’t feel the pain of its adherents, rather it is more concerned that everyone fall in line and follow the established protocol. Real ministry feels the infirmities and sufferings of people, and does not wait around for prior approval to meet the need.

I love how Jesus turned the tables on the religious ruler by telling him if he had an animal that was thirsty, he would untie it and lead it to water on the Sabbath Day. By all accounts that too was ‘work’, so we see that the real issue here was not that Jesus was breaking the Law, but that this man’s religion was more important to him than ministering to the needy. In other words, this man had a ‘heart condition’ that would not permit him to offer comfort to the needy at the expense of his doctrine.

As Christians, this is not what we are to be. Knowing that Jesus came not for those who were whole, but for those that needed a physician, it stands to reason that such a mindset should be ours as well. [3]

As we gaze upon humanity with open hearts and minds, it is plain for all to see that people are imprisoned by sin, sickness, addictions of every sort, and are in distress and great need.

Our world is quickly losing its capacity to exhibit mercy and compassion, and is becoming insensitive to the plight of others. Additionally, we seem to have an insatiable appetite for gore, violence, and immorality. Such is the cost of a society that has rejected God.

May it not be said of us that we looked, but did not see. Rather, may it be said of us that we looked upon suffering humanity with the same eyes and heart that Jesus did.

After all, that is why we are here. Isn’t it?

Be blessed,

Ron

[1] This saying has been traced back to 1546, and has its origins in Jeremiah 5:21

[2] The affliction this woman had is known medically as Camptocormia, and is typically associated with another disease

[3] Scripture reference Mark 2:17

What will you do in the end?

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Those are the words spoken by God through His servant Jeremiah concerning the impending destruction and captivity of Judah.

The book of Jeremiah was written between 585-580 B.C. (approximately). Roughly 2600 years ago, the prophesied Babylonian siege and captivity of Jerusalem was about to commence.

Unable to find a man who executed righteous judgement or who sought truth, God was bringing His own judgement upon the nation of Judah because she had utterly rejected the Lord.

The sins of Judah and Israel were great and many.

  • They had refused correction (verse 3}
  • They refused to return unto the Lord (verse 3)
  • Their backslidings increased (verse 6)
  • They committed adultery (verse 7)
  • They had lied about the Lord (verse 12)
  • They prophesied falsely (verse 13)
  • They had a defiant and rebellious heart (verse 23)
  • Their houses were full of deceit (verse 27)
  • They would not plead the cause of the fatherless (verse 28)

Sound familiar?

These (and many more) are the reasons why God was going to use the Babylonians as His instrument of correction in the hope that Judah would once again return unto God.

So exasperated was the Lord with His people that He declared:

“An astonishing and horrible thing
Has been committed in the land:
The prophets prophesy falsely,
And the priests rule by their own power;
And My people love to have it so.
But what will you do in the end”?   Jeremiah 5:30-31

“But what will you do in the end”?

I believe the Lord would ask this same question of America today. Now that we have rejected Him in nearly every way possible, what now?

What now, now that we are killing babies right up until the time of birth?

What now, knowing full well that it will not stop there? We have “progressed” from abortions at the beginning of term to now killing them in the instant before they draw their first breath outside of the womb.

This lust for killing and savagery is unparalleled in the history of man. The only thing close to this level of barbarism is the Nazi war machine and it’s stated goal of genocide against the Jews and other undesirables of Europe.

To be sure, our politicians and financiers of such demonic activity use much more discretionary tactics than did the brutal SS of Hitler’s regime. The results, however, are the same: annihilate those deemed unwanted, unloved, unfit, or unworthy to live.

All decided of course, by the degenerate, sadistic, and morally bankrupt individuals who are now running this country.

Only a fool, or those who have willingly buried their heads in the proverbial sand, could say that America today is any different than the Judah and Israel of 2600 years ago.

It is a farce to hear the song “God Bless America” today. We would have the audacity to ask for God’s blessings when this nation has turned into a killing machine of the innocent?

So, the question that must be asked is “what will you do in the end”?

When God withdraws completely from America, what will you do?

When God turns a deaf ear to your cries, what will you do?

When God refuses to send the rain, what will you do?

When our cities are on fire, and no amount of police protection is enough to keep us safe in our homes, what will you do?

Will you cry aloud to the gods who have murdered the innocent?

Will you make your petitions known to those who place no value on human life, especially the innocent and unborn?

What will you do in the end?

I’d say you would be wise to figure it our today, because the end in coming, and it’s not going to be pretty.

“As for me and my house, we will serve the Lord”. Joshua 24:15

 Ron