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“Because I said so, that’s why”!

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How many of us have ever been shopping at Walmart or the grocery store and observed the following?

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Mom or Dad is shopping with a couple of kids in tow. As kids are prone to do, their eyes are drawn to things and they begin to ask if they can have them.

This goes on for a while, and each time they ask for something Mom or Dad says “no, you can’t have that”, or “no, not today”. Of course, kids will be kids, so naturally they ask “why not?”

Every. Single. Time.

After the umpteenth time, the exasperated parent finally lets out a forceful “because I said so, that’s why not”!

Now, I’m pretty sure that none of you or your children ever did such a thing (insert smile). Personally, I don’t remember doing this as a child either, but being the ornery kid I was, I probably did. Well, that and I probably knew what was waiting for me at home if I ever tried it (insert frown).

All children are inquisitive and want to get their hands on new things, even things they probably know they can’t or shouldn’t have. What they mostly want however, is to have their own way.

It’s a natural tendency to want what we want when we want it, and we want our way NOW. Humans have been this way from day one. It all goes back to that Adam and Eve debacle.

A lot of us are still like that as adults, aren’t we? As we grow older and begin working and taking on the adult responsibilities of life, we feel a certain sense of entitlement. After all, we are working hard and deserve to have a few nice things. Nothing wrong with that.

Looking at things from a spiritual perspective however is where this sense of ‘wanting to have it our way now’ can get us in trouble. That’s because in the eyes of our Heavenly Father, we are children that are in dire need of many things, and those things usually don’t include cars, boats, and the like.

What we do need however is spiritual nurturing, which encompasses a multitude of areas. These include teaching, encouraging, growth, care, support, and even discipline when necessary.

To be honest, many of us have gone through periods where we didn’t want any of those things. What we wanted was to live our life our own way, without any restrictions imposed upon us, with no strings attached.

Some of us have gone so far as to reject God altogether. We make a conscious decision not to believe in anything beyond our self. In doing so, we convince ourselves that we are absolved from any accountability to God, thus freeing our minds from any thought of right/wrong or the concept of yes/no.

We convince ourselves that we have found a winning formula. No God equals no Heaven and no Hell, nor any consequences for our decisions. This leaves us completely free to think and do as we please.

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Cue the song “Imagine” by John Lennon.

Except that it isn’t that simple. Despite our formulas, our wishful thinking, or our melodic songs, God does, in fact, exist. He simply cannot be wished away.

Despite the scientific community’s best efforts to prove otherwise, we have been created in the image of God. As such, we possess the incredible power to choose and to make decisions, whether they be good or bad.

All of this means that no, we are not free to think and do as we please. At least not without having to deal with the consequences of our actions.

We can choose to not like this arrangement all we want. We can stubbornly decide to go our own way and do our own thing until we breathe our last breath. We can override our conscious and choose to reject the call of God and leave this life having never known Him.

What we cannot do, however, is escape Him. Our decisions and actions will be accounted for one day. His judgments are certain and final, and none will be exempt.

And I saw the dead, small and great, stand before God; and the books were opened: and another book was opened, which is the book of life: and the dead were judged out of those things which were written in the books, according to their works.

Choosing to ignore the clear teachings of Scripture about the coming judgment in order to have it your way is to commit spiritual suicide. It is the very act of throwing away your life on earth and ultimately damming your eternal soul to Hell. To my mind, that doesn’t sound like such a wise decision, but what matters is how do you feel about that?

Do these words sound harsh to you? Does all of this talk about judgement seem…well, judgmental? Are these words offensive to you? Would you rather not hear them?

If you answered “yes” to any of these questions you can take some small comfort in knowing that most people agree with you. Unfortunately, that doesn’t change a thing.

This great judgment day will render everyone equal. The wealthy, the poor, the white, the black, the privileged and the pauper, will all stand on the same level ground before God’s throne. And just in case someone wants to ask “why”, it’s because He said so!

On this great day every account will be settled. Every sin not under the blood of Jesus Christ will be made known. There will be no place to hide. Every joke and criticism ever made about the existence of God will be silenced. The atheist and agnostic will at long last be silenced. The lukewarm church goer who never accepted Christ’s sacrifice for their sins will be find no solace on that dreadful day.

And I heard another out of the altar say, Even so, Lord God Almighty, true and righteous are thy judgments.

Committing our lives to Jesus Christ on this side of eternity ensures that when that great day of reckoning comes, we will be safe and secure in the promises of God that He will redeem us for all of eternity.

Because He said so!

Have a blessed day everyone!

Ron

[1] Revelation 20:12

[2] Revelation 16:7

Rejoice in the Lord always. Again I will say, rejoice”! Philippians 4:4 NKJV

 

 

 

Old habits sure are hard to break

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I like to talk to people. It doesn’t matter to me if they’re young or old, male or female, or what nationality they may claim. I find people interesting, and I enjoy striking up a conversation with them.

I’m that guy who goes to Walmart with his wife and disappears for a few minutes, only to be found two aisles over talking to someone he’s never met before.

Yep, that guy.

If I see someone just moving in the neighborhood I’ll probably strike up a conversation with them the first chance I get. Just did that a few days ago as a matter of fact.

The ladies in my house think my talking to complete strangers is a bit odd.

They may be right.

What’s funny (to me) about this is that until I was in my early 20’s I was extremely shy and socially awkward. Even looking someone in the eyes was a major struggle for me. Maybe some of you can relate?

It wasn’t until I became a Christian and began to grown in my faith that I actually began to see myself as “good enough” and on equal footing as the rest of the world. Oh sure, I had plenty of people telling me that I would never be more than the shy, introverted country boy I’d always been, but I was determined to be more than that.

By the grace of God and the support of the best wife in the world I went farther than what anyone ever thought I would or could. Along the way I found my voice and God opened many, many doors for me to use it. Again, it was nothing I did. To God be the Glory for every good thing that has come my way!

So, as I said, I enjoy talking to people. I’m finding out however, that I’m not supposed to be doing that any longer, at least not without some restraints. Let me explain.

A few months ago I was out walking and the school bus dropped off a young lady and as the bus pulled away, I said hello to her. She didn’t respond, which I took to mean she didn’t hear me. So I said something to the effect of “I bet you’re glad to be out of school for the day, aren’t you”? This time she murmured something that I couldn’t understand. With that, she seemed to pick up the pace and hurried to get home.

Odd, I thought.

Just last night I was wandering around Target and I hear the familiar sounds of SuperMario coming from the electronics section of the store. I used to love playing Mario when it first came out, so I was naturally drawn to the sounds.

As I round the corner I see a young boy about 10 years of age intently focused on the game he was playing. He was pretty good at it and I complimented him on his skills. In response he barely glanced over his shoulder at me. I watched a few more seconds and told him that I too used to love to play Mario, and this time he didn’t even look at me. The silence felt very awkward, so I quickly left.

Recounting these events with my family I was told that I was probably thought of as an old creeper. In other words, I cannot strike up a conversation with children I don’t know, because I will be thought of as a potential predator.

As I listened to my daughter(who works with kids at a day care)tell me about how I should keep to myself when I’m around strange kids, it all started to make sense and I knew she was right. After all, no telling how many times these kids have been told about “Stranger Danger”. To them, I’m just another old guy that wants to harm them.

I get it.

Still, none of this sits well with me. I don’t like not being able to smile at a child or make over a baby in the store without it stepping over some line that society has deemed uncrossable. It’s just an automatic, natural thing to want to say “hi”.

Honestly, I get it.

Sadly, I get it.

Actually, tit’s kind of heartbreaking if you want to know the truth about it.

So I guess I’m left to wander around the store, hands in my pockets, eyes straight ahead, wearing blinders so I don’t notice the children. I’m to pretend there are nothing but grown ups within 100 yards of me. Which really stinks, because I seem to get along much better with kids than people my own age.

And that my friends, is the society we have descended into. Not much more to say about that I suppose.

Old habits sure are hard to break…I wonder how long it’ll be before I smile at some kid and ask “how ya doin”?

Be blessed on this Lord’s day,

Ron

Are you satisfied with just one day of Christmas?

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Am I the only one that thinks we’re getting ripped off here?

December 25th. Christmas Day.Here for just 24 hours then gone until next year.

Right this moment the TV news is touting yet another heartwarming story about someone reaching out to someone else just in the nick of time to avert a disaster of some sort. I love that.

For the past couple of weeks I’ve been hearing these kinds of stories regularly on the evening news. People from all walks of life start performing incredible deeds of kindness and generosity.

Some good news is indeed welcomed right now,especially given that we have just survived an incredibly cold,mean,and heartless national election. Yeah,we could use some good news for a change!

What I have never understood however is why these types of things only seem to happen at Christmas time? Maybe they do happen all the time,but you sure don’t hear about them like you do at Christmas.

Or at least it seems that way.

Some people call it the magic of Christmas. Others say that Christmas just makes them feel good. Then you have those that declare that its the spirit of Christmas.

Whatever you call it,what I want to know is where is it the rest of the year? Why can’t we have that Christmas feeling all the time? And just where does the spirit of Christmas go after December 25th?

Why don’t we give extraordinary tips at the restaurant every day to help out that single mom whose waiting on tables to help make ends meet? Surely they can use the help throughout the year.

Why is it that Christmas is the only time of the year when you hear about the “secret santa’s” paying off someone’s layaway at Walmart? Is Christmas the only time of the year when people use layaway?

Just yesterday I saw where hundreds of volunteers showed up to put together Christmas dinners for the homeless and needy in this area. What is it about Christmas that makes people do what they would not do in July?

Could it be that Christmas is the one time of the year when we actually open the door to our hearts so that we can then see the needs of others? If so…why? Why not every day?

Could it possibly be that at this one time of the year Jesus becomes real to us? To all of us?

Why do we wait all year to show a little kindness and compassion to others? Surely those wonderful traits are needed throughout the entire year,aren’t they?

In this cold,callous world showing acts of kindness and mercy are often viewed as a type of weakness.After all,only the strong survive,right? Is that why we refrain from doing them at other times?

Whatever the reason for the sudden outpouring of love and kindness,don’t you wonder why it can’t be this way all the time? Could it? Can it? Do we dare hope that it could be?

Here is what I think. I think it starts with one person. That could be you. Or it could be me. Doesn’t matter. What matters is that we open our eyes to the needs of others. That we allow ourselves to feel. To care.

What matters is that we recognize that we are so blessed to have so many good things,and that for the grace of God any one of us could be that person in need of some Christmas love.

Frankly,I’m not satisfied with one day of Christmas. Not when I know how easy it would be to keep the true meaning of Christmas going day after day.

Pipe dream you say? Pie in the sky? Maybe it is. But I’ve always heard that if you’re going to dream,dream big.

Merry Christmas everyone.

Ron